Many of us have found ourselves in situations where we knew exactly what to do—but still couldn’t follow through. Whether it’s trying to quit smoking, start exercising, change eating habits, or improve our relationships, we often hit inner barriers that block our goals.
Knowing what’s best for us is one thing; actually doing it is something else entirely. For example, many smokers are aware of the risks of smoking and genuinely want to quit. Yet, without professional help, the success rate is only 3–5%. With expert support and the right treatment, the success rate increases to 30–35%.(Source: drogy-info.cz).
But this isn’t just about smoking. The same pattern shows up in countless other areas:
Why do I keep repeating the same patterns in relationships?
Why am I afraid to change jobs, even if I’m unhappy?
Why do I always sabotage my own progress at the last minute?
Why is it hard to bridge the gap between theory and practice?
One of the main reasons is that our behavior is often influenced by deeply rooted habits and emotions. Even if we logically understand what’s good for us, emotional and subconscious patterns can stand in the way of change. Fear of failure or the need for immediate gratification can sabotage our efforts.
How to bridge the gap between knowing and doing?
- Self-reflection: Take a moment to explore what’s really holding you back. Are fear or certain habits in your way?
- Setting realistic goals: Instead of vague, broad intentions, break your goals into small, specific steps you can actually take.
- Working with emotions: Acknowledge your emotions and learn how to work with them. This might include stress management techniques, meditation, or therapy.
- Seeking support: A coach can be a powerful guide on the path to change, but if you’re dealing with deeper blocks, therapy may be necessary.
Coaching vs. therapy: What's the difference?
A coach will help you design a life aligned with your values, break the cycle of procrastination, and create effective routines. A therapist will help you understand why you fear failure, where your fear of rejection comes from, or why you sabotage yourself.
In many cases, a combination is ideal. If someone wants to make deep, lasting change, both levels often need attention. Coaching helps with transformation and action, while therapy helps uncover and heal the blocks that hold us back.
Translating knowledge into real-life change isn’t always easy—but it’s absolutely possible with the right understanding and support. The key is patience, self-awareness, and the willingness to face your fears.
Knowing isn’t enough – you need the courage to go deeper, understand yourself, and take the next brave step.
What change have you managed to make, even when it felt hard?